Passion is never an excuse for an emotional outburst. Anger is a great motivator and sometimes it’s too great. When it’s used to intimidate and influence an argument, it’s wrong. People who have mastered anger management can appear perfectly calm but still be seething inside. This is not fake. This is meek. There is a difference. Fake would be saying you’re not angry when you are. Meek is answering the question of anger with a calm and cold demeanor. Now that may not be believed, but when it is, it may be a bit more influential than an outburst and therefore appropriate. Outbursts of anger are wrong… not anger itself.