What if the team is growing and passing me by? What if my discomfort with the change is caused by my own lack of personal growth? It’s like a kid in a growth spurt who has to wear those jeans that don’t quite reach the ankle. Growth sounds like a good goal but those who are happy with where they are may not be interested in growing. That means changes for the better will be unwanted if they upset the order that the complacent are used to. The unpleasant reality is that there is no growth without change. It’s a sad moment when we realize the team has grown and we are just the jeans that may get replaced.