All or Nothing
One of the more unfortunate “hang-ups” that I notice in the general population is the either/or/all-or-nothing mindset. If I broaden my view of fun, then I must embrace a life of debauchery and reckless decision making. Of course, this is nothing but a fearful mindset that sees life as a range of slippery slopes. Everything may be available but not everything is the best choice for the moment. The idea isn’t to maximize fun in our life through a life of pleasure seeking. The idea is to find the best choice for the moment and not pass over the best choice due to our “hang-ups” of what is allowable and fun.